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What sacrifices have you made in life?

My life has been a journey marked by sacrifices, but I’ve come to see them not as losses, but as lessons that shaped who I am. Growing up, I had little supportfinancial or otherwisefrom family or relatives. At the time, it felt isolating, but in hindsight, it was a gift. Those challenges forged resilience, teaching me how to face adversity head-on and discern who to trust and who to keep at a distance. The lean years were humbling. Poverty brought mockery, but as circumstances improved, the same voices offered praise. It was a stark lesson in human natureone that taught me to value authenticity over fleeting approval. Through it all, my wife has been my rock, standing by me through every high and low. Together, we embraced a frugal lifestyle, not out of necessity alone, but as a deliberate choice to build a secure future. We saved diligently, invested wisely,… What sacrifices have you made in life?

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What makes you nervous?

At 57, after navigating a lifetime of highs and lows, very little makes me nervous. When news breakswhether it’s a potential problem or an unexpected curveballmy mind doesn’t freeze. Instead, it shifts into analytical mode, a skill I’ve honed over decades. I weigh the pros and cons, consider what could go wrong, and evaluate how it might affect me or my loved ones. Fortunately, I’ve always had a knack for finding solutions. They may not be perfect, but they’re practical and effective for my humble life. Once I map out a plan, I focus on the next steps and dive into action. There’s no room for nervous jittersjust a clear path forward. This mindset has been my anchor through life’s storms.

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What’s a secret skill or ability you have or wish you had?

One of my secret skill is the ability to find happiness and contentment in my own company. I don’t need a crowd to thriveI’m perfectly capable of taking care of myself and staying productive with whatever resources I have at hand. To give you a glimpse into this, I’ve been living alone for the past couple of months. I fill my days with meaningful pursuits: my office work keeps me engaged, while hobbies like gardening, cooking, and keeping my home spotless give me a sense of purpose. I’m not someone who craves constant companionship or falters without a support network. Life has forged me into someone resilient, and I wouldn’t change that for anything. Fortunately, my wife and son share this same quality. Together, we’re a strong team; apart, we each flourish independently. It’s a trait that binds usand sets us free.