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What’s one small improvement you can make in your life?

One small but powerful improvement I’m working on is how I handle irritation. Over the years, I’ve encountered people from all walks of lifesome kind, others outright racist, arrogant, or abusive. My natural instinct has been to react with anger, often exploding in the face of such behavior. But I’ve come to realize that trying to change these individuals with heated words is futile. Their attitudes are deeply ingrained, shaped by their upbringing and environment. Instead of letting their negativity steal my peace, I’m learning to take control of my emotions. When possible, I avoid engaging with toxic people altogether. When avoidance isn’t an option, I focus on staying calm and composed, refusing to let their behavior disrupt my inner balance. After all, the only person I can truly change is myself. To support this shift, I prioritize self-care. I stay busy with my daily routine, exercise regularly, eat a… What’s one small improvement you can make in your life?

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What gives you direction in life?

When I face a tough decision or need direction, I first turn to my inner self. I’m no meditation guru or spiritual master, but after five decades of life, I’ve built a rich tapestry of experiencessome joyful, others painful. These memories serve as my guide, helping me navigate choices with clarity. Next, I consult my inner circle: my wife and son. Their perspectives often challenge my own, offering fresh angles I hadn’t considered. Do I always follow their advice? Not entirely. I cherry-pick what resonates, blending their insights with my own to craft a balanced decision. Living in a family means decisions ripple outward, affecting everyone. Compromise isn’t just a strategyit’s a necessity for harmony.

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Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?

A quote that has stayed with me since my school days is from Chanakya’s Niti, a timeless collection of ancient Indian wisdom: “Manasā cintitaṁ kāryaṁ vācā naiva prakāśayÄ“t. Mantrēṇa raká¹£ayÄ“dgūḍhaṁ kāryÄ“ cāpi niyōjayÄ“t.” Translated from Sanskrit, it means: “Do not reveal your plans before they are finalized. Keep them secret with wise counsel and execute them with determination.” This profound advice, attributed to Chanakyaa legendary 4th-century Indian scholar, philosopher, and royal advisorresonates deeply with me. It reflects a keen understanding of human nature and the pursuit of meaningful goals. From a young age, I’ve believed in embracing my strengths and acknowledging my limitations to chart my life’s path. When making decisions, I carefully weigh the pros and cons, trusting my instincts to guide me. Once I’m convinced of a course of action, I stay resolute. However, I’ve learned that sharing plans prematurely can invite conflicting opinions that may cloud my… Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?