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Activities or hobbies you’ve outgrown or lost interest over time

The list of activities and hobbies I’ve outgrownor simply lost interest inwould be a long one. I have a habit of diving into new tasks with enthusiasm, trying them out for a few days, and then dropping them the moment they start to feel dull. Before you judge me, let me explain. The sales pitch for these activities always sounds thrilling, promising excitement, fulfillment, or even hidden talents waiting to be unlocked. And I fall for itevery single time. But after a few attempts, the reality rarely lives up to the hype. The excitement fades, the novelty wears off, and I move on. Thankfully, I don’t apply this habit to my relationships with peoplethere, I’m much more intentional. But I digress.

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Do you need a break? From what?

Absolutely, I do need a break every now and then. Of late, I have been feeling the need to step backfrom the chaos, the noise, and the unnecessary stress. I need a break from: The list could go on forever, but here’s the truth I’ve come to accept: I can’t change the world, but I can change how I respond to it. So, instead of letting negativity consume me, I choose to: ✅ Stay engaged in productive activities like gardening 🌱✅ Learn new skills (cooking is my latest adventure!) 🍳✅ Ignore annoying peopleor, if unavoidable, limit interaction to the bare minimum 🚫✅ Exercise regularly to keep my mind and body strong 💪 At the end of the day, the best way to recharge is to focus on what nourishes the soul and let go of what doesn’t.

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How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?

One of the greatest advantages of spending decades on this planet is the wealth of experiences you accumulate with the passage of time. Some of these moments shift your perspective on life and relationships in profound ways. In my case, they didn’t just change my outlookthey reshaped my entire personality, opening my eyes and molding me into the person I am today. Early on, I learned a hard truth: when faced with life’s toughest challenges, I was often on my own. I also discovered that success has a strange effect on peoplethose who once mocked my struggles were suddenly eager to share in my achievements. Did this realization leave me bitter or disillusioned? Not at all. Instead, it taught me one of life’s most valuable lessonswho to trust and who to keep at arm’s length.