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What’s your definition of romantic?

When you hear the word “romance” or “romantic”, what comes to mind? For many, it’s the image of starry-eyed teenagers, stolen glances in high school hallways, or the flutter of first love in college. But I believe this view is far too narrow. Romance isn’t just about young love or fleeting momentsit’s something deeper, richer, and more universal. Let’s redefine romance and explore its true essence. A Broader Definition of Romance Romance, at its core, is about being captivated by a dream. It’s the spark of passion that lights up when you’re enamored with a visionwhether that’s a person, an idea, a goal, or a lifelong ambition. A romantic is an optimistic dreamer, someone who sees the world through a lens of possibility and believes in the inherent goodness of people and life. They hold a quiet conviction that, no matter the odds, things will eventually fall into place. This… What’s your definition of romantic?

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What is one word that describes you?

The one word I would use to describe myself is ‘optimist’.An eternal believer in the theory that ‘I will survive’. Irrespective of the odds, I am sure that I would eventually get out of a tough situation in one piece. The tough initial years of my life maybe what makes me a firm believer in my survival instincts. Now on the last leg of my life I would rather build on the foundation that I have in place and spend the last few decades in understanding and making myself a better human being.

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A kid at heart

To be a kid at heart is to embody optimism, to see the goodness and potential in everyone, and to carry a spirit that is eternally cheerful, energetic, and resilient. But is it always wise to remain a kid at heart? The art is in balancing that youthful spirit with an adult’s discernment. While a childlike heart embraces wonder, it also needs guidance. Blind trust can mislead. Fantasies of angels and unicorns might lead us into dark places. Look in the mirrorthe person staring back is the one who deserves your trust and belief. Recognize your strengths and limits and give it your best shot. With a child’s perseverance, keep moving toward your goals. With this balance, success will surely follow.