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Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently?

Reflecting on my past, there are moments when my in action led to lingering regret. These instances, though small, taught me valuable lessons about taking responsibility and standing by my values. As a child, I once found what I thought was a shiny piece of string on the road. I pocketed it, only to discover at home that it was a gold chain. Instead of trying to find its rightful owner, my family and I stored it away. Years later, as an adult, I realized the emotional and financial loss this must have caused someone. The regret of not making an effort to return it still lingers. This experience taught me the importance of considering others’ feelings and acting with integrity, even when it’s tempting to keep something valuable. Another moment that stays with me happened at a movie theater. When the national anthem played, no one in the audience… Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently?

black and brown long coated small dog under brown wooden bench

What makes you nervous?

At 57, after navigating a lifetime of highs and lows, very little makes me nervous. When news breakswhether it’s a potential problem or an unexpected curveballmy mind doesn’t freeze. Instead, it shifts into analytical mode, a skill I’ve honed over decades. I weigh the pros and cons, consider what could go wrong, and evaluate how it might affect me or my loved ones. Fortunately, I’ve always had a knack for finding solutions. They may not be perfect, but they’re practical and effective for my humble life. Once I map out a plan, I focus on the next steps and dive into action. There’s no room for nervous jittersjust a clear path forward. This mindset has been my anchor through life’s storms.

Parameshwaran Pillai my maternal grandfather

Describe a positive thing a family member has done for you

When I think of a single positive thing a family member did for me, my mind travels back decades to my grandfather on my mother’s side. His life was the epitome of a rags-to-riches tale. Born into extreme poverty, he rose to become one of the wealthiest businessmen in our region. But what made him truly remarkable wasn’t just his wealthit was his heart. After building his fortune, my grandfather dedicated himself to uplifting others. He gave deserving individuals the chance to start their own businesses, creating a ripple effect of opportunity. Even now, six decades after his passing, people in our community speak his name with reverence, a testament to his enduring impact. Among his many generous acts, one stands out for me personally. While building his empire, my grandfather ensured his family was cared for. He built homes for his children, each with a small plot of land.… Describe a positive thing a family member has done for you