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What were your parents doing at your age?

At 56, I find myself reflecting on my parents at this age. My father, an Army officer, was settling into retirement, while my mother, a dedicated homemaker, embraced the quiet life in our home in Kerala. They were winding down, preparing for a peaceful, settled existence. In some ways, I see myself following a similar patternbut with a twist. I now split my time between Kerala and Mumbai, two places that have shaped my journey in different ways. Kerala, with its lush landscapes and slower pace, is perfect for a peaceful retirement. Mumbai, on the other hand, has been the city of ambition and struggle, the place where careers are built and dreams take flight. The plan is for my wife to join me in Kerala in a couple of years, once we’ve seen our son married and settled. Until then, I continue to navigate this transition, balancing the familiarity… What were your parents doing at your age?

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Today pictured a year ago

A year ago, I imagined what my life might look like todayand remarkably, it’s turned out quite close to that vision. I’ve always been someone who thrives on detailed plans and meticulous execution, much to the mild irritation of my wife and son 😄. Planning things to the smallest detail has its perks. I’m rarely caught off guard, and I feel in control. On the flip side, my tendency to overprepare means I sometimes pack for a trip weeks in advancean amusing habit that doesn’t always win me points with those around me! Last year, I started planning the next chapter of my lifethe phase where I’d leave the hustle and bustle of Mumbai and settle down in Kerala. The plan was to make the move a few years down the line, but life had other ideas. Due to work-related obligations, I had to accelerate my timeline. Today, I find… Today pictured a year ago