The people I admire and those I turn to for advice form two distinct, short lists, each shaped by different qualities and connections. My admiration list includes historical figures and a few family elders. The historical icons earned their place through actions that reshaped the world or sparked new ways of thinkingthinkers and doers whose impact endures. My family elders, on the other hand, won my respect through their unwavering consistency. Over years of knowing them, their opinions of me never wavered, a steadfastness I deeply value. But do I seek their advice? Not really. The historical figures are long gone, and while I respect my elders, admiration doesn’t always translate to seeking their counsel. When it comes to advice, my circle is even smallerjust three names: my wife, my son, and myself. I have strong opinions on nearly everything, but as a tight-knit family, our decisions need to work… List the people you admire and look to for advice…