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List the people you admire and look to for advice…

The people I admire and those I turn to for advice form two distinct, short lists, each shaped by different qualities and connections. My admiration list includes historical figures and a few family elders. The historical icons earned their place through actions that reshaped the world or sparked new ways of thinkingthinkers and doers whose impact endures. My family elders, on the other hand, won my respect through their unwavering consistency. Over years of knowing them, their opinions of me never wavered, a steadfastness I deeply value. But do I seek their advice? Not really. The historical figures are long gone, and while I respect my elders, admiration doesn’t always translate to seeking their counsel. When it comes to advice, my circle is even smallerjust three names: my wife, my son, and myself. I have strong opinions on nearly everything, but as a tight-knit family, our decisions need to work… List the people you admire and look to for advice…

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What gives you direction in life?

When I face a tough decision or need direction, I first turn to my inner self. I’m no meditation guru or spiritual master, but after five decades of life, I’ve built a rich tapestry of experiencessome joyful, others painful. These memories serve as my guide, helping me navigate choices with clarity. Next, I consult my inner circle: my wife and son. Their perspectives often challenge my own, offering fresh angles I hadn’t considered. Do I always follow their advice? Not entirely. I cherry-pick what resonates, blending their insights with my own to craft a balanced decision. Living in a family means decisions ripple outward, affecting everyone. Compromise isn’t just a strategyit’s a necessity for harmony.

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Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?

A quote that has stayed with me since my school days is from Chanakya’s Niti, a timeless collection of ancient Indian wisdom: “Manasā cintitaṁ kāryaṁ vācā naiva prakāśayÄ“t. Mantrēṇa raká¹£ayÄ“dgūḍhaṁ kāryÄ“ cāpi niyōjayÄ“t.” Translated from Sanskrit, it means: “Do not reveal your plans before they are finalized. Keep them secret with wise counsel and execute them with determination.” This profound advice, attributed to Chanakyaa legendary 4th-century Indian scholar, philosopher, and royal advisorresonates deeply with me. It reflects a keen understanding of human nature and the pursuit of meaningful goals. From a young age, I’ve believed in embracing my strengths and acknowledging my limitations to chart my life’s path. When making decisions, I carefully weigh the pros and cons, trusting my instincts to guide me. Once I’m convinced of a course of action, I stay resolute. However, I’ve learned that sharing plans prematurely can invite conflicting opinions that may cloud my… Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?